38 weeks, 4 days

I’m almost to the end.

I’m almost to the end of a pregnancy that went incredibly fast and incredibly slow. A pregnancy that was emotionally difficult, yet almost completely uneventful. A pregnancy that we longed for and that I’m reluctant to say goodbye to, but also can’t wait to be over. And I feel calm, panicked, excited, terrified, happy, sad, apprehensive, and impatient all at once.

Just 10 short days until our due date.

And I can’t wait to meet our little guy. I can’t wait to see that he has safely made it into the world. I can’t wait to be done with all the pregnancy worries I’ve carried for so long; monitoring movement, wondering if he’s ok, panicking at thoughts of the worst case scenario happening. I can’t wait to hold him in my arms. I tear up when I think about going into labor, although I try to convince myself it’s not because I’m afraid (“It’s not ’cause I’m a wimp!” I tried to tell my husband, wiping my eyes), but just because I feel so overcome with the emotional intensity of it all.

And then there’s part of me that is sad to no longer be pregnant anymore. I waited for so long, I wanted it for so long, I fantasized about it for so long. I feel so mixed about it being over.

Tuesday was our 3rd wedding anniversary. Exactly two years ago to that day we got our first positive pregnancy test. So interesting to have our anniversary punctuate a beginning and an end to this particular fertility journey. Despite the struggle in between, I can look back on these anniversaries fondly, as happy times, as times of great anticipation, and feeling so excited and connected as a couple.

And of course, feeling like there is another huge adventure in front of us…

26 thoughts on “38 weeks, 4 days

  1. How incredible to hear that you are almost there! I have truly enjoyed following you on this journey. This month we are doing our first IUI so fingers crossed! I hope everything goes well with your delivery. And yes please post some pics of your little guy when he gets here! SO happy to hear a happy ending!


  2. So glad that you’ve reached the home stretch and excited to hear if you little one’s arrival. I know what you mean about it being bittersweet. I was so ready to be done in those last few weeks but also knew it was my last pregnancy and didn’t want to wish it away!


  3. I was exactly like you! I was sad to give up being pregnant, but having the little one here is so amazing and I suddenly have a whole new set of worries! Sending you happy thoughts for a smooth labor!


  4. yay! I’m so excited for you. any day now 🙂 I expected to go late and baby came early at 39wks. I didn’t want pregnancy to end but when it was over I didn’t want to go back. having a baby in arms was way better. all the best!


  5. THIS:

    “So interesting to have our anniversary punctuate a beginning and an end to this particular fertility journey.”

    I get it.
    I do.

    Continued blessings to the three of you.

    Under the same sky,


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